Thursday, September 2, 2010

How can I not blog about this?

First Day of School gifts from Mom
It's a mom's right of passage to blog about the first day of school.  So I'm doing it!  Cameron's first day of Kindergarten was yesterday and Mayes started preschool today.  Both are very excited and had absolutely NO issues leaving me for a few hours at a time.  Wouldn't expect anything less from them!  I love how excited they are to learn and socialize.  Here are a few pics I snapped as we headed out the door.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

a little boy and his "isms"

Cameron's dream girl:  She has long golden hair that is straight and smooth.  Her eyebrows are black and her eyelashes are golden like her hair.  She has bright blue eyes and wears "that blue stuff on her eyes that girls wear sometimes".  She has red lips.  Her dress is pink with white over it and has loop-de-loops on the bottom.

Cameron's version of what it takes to be a man: "Mom, I already know how to be a man.  You have to work, do yard work, get a job, and pay taxes."

Cameron's talents (verbatim): #1) I am fast. #2) I have cool moves. #3) Good dancer. #4) Cool tricks.  (Later he added a fifth: "I can lift my brother into the car all by myself.  Another talent.")

One on Mayes: I told him we needed to cut his toe-nails and he protested.  When I explained that it was definitely time to start clipping, he relented saying (sadly), "Ok, but not the little guys!"  He loves the little piggies that cry "wee". 

Tuesday, March 23, 2010

my views exactly

On March 22, 2010, Governor Mitt Romney issued the following statement on the passage of healthcare reform.  Although I am not a staunch Romney supporter, this statement sums up a lot of what I have been feeling about "healthcare" legislation for some time now.   

"America has just witnessed an unconscionable abuse of power. President Obama has betrayed his oath to the nation — rather than bringing us together, ushering in a new kind of politics, and rising above raw partisanship, he has succumbed to the lowest denominator of incumbent power: justifying the means by extolling the ends. He promised better; we deserved better.

He calls his accomplishment “historic” — in this he is correct, although not for the reason he intends. Rather, it is an historic usurpation of the legislative process — he unleashed the nuclear option, enlisted not a single Republican vote in either chamber, bribed reluctant members of his own party, paid-off his union backers, scapegoated insurers, and justified his act with patently fraudulent accounting. What Barack Obama has ushered into the American political landscape is not good for our country; in the words of an ancient maxim, “what starts twisted, ends twisted.”

His health-care bill is unhealthy for America. It raises taxes, slashes the more private side of Medicare, installs price controls, and puts a new federal bureaucracy in charge of health care. It will create a new entitlement even as the ones we already have are bankrupt. For these reasons and more, the act should be repealed. That campaign begins today."

I, for one, am ashamed at how this bill was passed.  Whether you agree with what is in it or not, Americans MUST agree on the fact that it was a tricky, backdoor triumph.  I also wonder, how are private insurance companies supposed to bear the demands placed on them with this reform?  Granted reform is needed, but tell me mathematically how insurance providers are supposed to generally accept everyone and at the same time lower premiums?  It's impossible.  They will go bankrupt and fail, leading us into a social system run by the government (who bankrupted SS, Medicaid, and Medicare).  Why should I pay the same premiums as someone who has never worked, never put money into the system through taxes, doesn't take care of their body as well as I do, and abuses our health professionals and establishments?  It's like car insurance.  If you are a risk, a higher liability, then your premiums will be higher.  It's simple and logical and fair. Furthermore, how is it Constitutional that Americans will be forced to accept insurance whether they want it or not?  If this bill is the best that lawmakers could come up with, then why are we threatened with fines and/or imprisonment if we do not conform?  And why are the lawmakers not subjecting themselves to their own rules?  How are they able to write themselves out of a program that they say will benefit the rest of us?  Why are we not looking into tort reform?  Why aren't we improving the existing state programs like Medicaid?  I have used those programs!  They are in desperate need of regulation!  Why are we not putting time limits on how long someone can stay on those programs?  Why are we letting illegal immigrants use our resources?  Why should I want a third party telling me who I can see for medical treatment and how often I can see them?  Why should I leave the fate of my family's health care in the hands of lawmakers who do not know or care about me?  Also, in these current economic times, how are small business owners, etc. supposed to pay for mandatory health insurance for their employees?  There are heavy taxes on employers for doing so!  If they are struggling as is, then how can we expect people who aren't financially ready to take on such a burden?  It doesn't make sense with the current economic climate.  Lastly, how am I to wield my moral philosophies to accept the fact that some of my husband's paycheck may ultimately pay for abortions that I don't agree with?

If it were up to me, I would restrict the liberal suing of health care professionals.  I would drastically tighten the use of our social programs by placing time limits on usage of these resources (however allowing for extenuating circumstances as they arise).  I would look to immigration control thereby disallowing use of our programs by people who are not legal citizens (and thus who do not pay back in taxes what they take from the system).  (Note that I am not saying I am anti immigration.  Because I am NOT.  I am anti illegal immigration.)  I would look into insurance practices and allow for regulation that WON'T bankrupt those private entities.  Above all, I would allow the freedom of choice in the matter of personal health.  I believe that with those few changes, we would have the money available in programs like Medicaid and TANF to effectively aid those people who truly do need help.  I am not cold hearted.  I WANT to help people who struggle but can't afford their health bills.  (Those people of course being tax paying people who have done what they can to provide for their families.)  And we CAN do that!  Just not the way our current leaders have outlined earlier this week.  It won't work.  We will see dire ramifications if it is not overturned. 

I am grateful for leaders, family and friends who have educated themselves on this matter.  The bill that was passed was not health care.  It is not fiscally sound.  It is not economically wise.  It's not logical.  We can't stay healthy if the government ties the hands of those professionals who sacrificed time, talents, money, and hard work to help us.  We can do better and I pray that we do.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

try deconstructing this liguistic masterpiece

Tonight, Mayes asked Jarron to bring our desk chair into the living room and sit on it while he talked to to him from his position on the couch.  This is their conversation:

MAYES:  Dad, sit on this chair and talk to me.
JARRON:  Ok Mayes.  What?
MAYES: Somebody stole your personal prayers.
JARRON: What does that mean?
MAYES: It means that you're gonna get spanked.
JARRON: Who's gonna spank me?
MAYES: [pause] A robot.
JARRON: Where's the robot?
MAYES: In jail.
JARRON: Why?
MAYES: Cuz he killed the bad people.
JARRON: Ok.  What else?
MAYES: And they stole ears.  And lunches. [Walking over to Jarron] Now lift up. [Removes the chair]
JARRON: [pause] Do you wanna play catch?
MAYES: Yeah.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

killer whales in washington?

We just passed the one year mark of starting our drawn out move to Washington.  And what a year it has been!  To "celebrate", we made official our status as Washingtonians with current driver's licenses and license plates (the generic, boring Washington ones).  However, I left the DMV with one important question: Why does Washington state offer a killer whale specialty license plate?  I don't get it.  It was a tempting purchase though, seeing as it was the closest thing to a fish that Washington offers.  It was a sad day for Jarron to say goodbye to his Utah rainbow trout plate, but I'm sure he will find a nice place for it to hang in our garage.

Saturday, January 30, 2010

gold stars for everyone

I am feeling the need to write a HUGE thank you to all of you for your comments, calls, emails, prayers, etc. during the past week.  Without you guys, I would have endured a lot more saddness and probably would have followed Jarron around like a clingy monkey for days.  (Which, since you know Jarron, would have gotten old for him fast.)  Thanks for taking me out, taking my mind off of things, and taking care with how you handled the public details of my personal life.  I have the most thoughtful friends and family and totally do not deserve any of you!  I think about the comfort and inspiration you give me and am humbled by the choice people I have in my life.  I'm definitely undeserving and love you all so much. 

(You can go be sick now if this was too gushy-mushy.  I totally understand.  But I still love you.  That won't change.)

Sunday, January 24, 2010

CURSES! (a very important update to yesterday's post)

Hi to everyone who read the post I wrote yesterday. However, I believe I jinxed myself because now I must (sadly) retract the last paragraph of that post.

Last night, we went out as a family to dinner and then to my nephew's basketball game. We went to eat at a place in town called New York Teriyaki and Burgers. It's actually pretty good--they give you a ton of food--but it's no where near as good as Osaka in Provo! Anyway, the only other time we went to NYT&B was the day we found out I was pregnant with this most recent baby. Jarron liked it so well that we decided to go again last night. It was trippy, but a strange thought entered my head as we walked in. It was along the lines of: "What if I lost this baby tonight since we haven't been back since we celebrated the pregnancy?" Morbid and weird, I know.

So we ate and then went to the school gym where the game was held. The kids and I needed to use the bathroom so we made a pit stop before finding seats. Jarron took the boys to meet our family in the bleachers as I finished up. That's when I noticed my first sign of this pregnancy potentially failing. I texted my sister-in-law to tell Jarron to hurry back (not giving any details), but he sent her instead to see what I needed (yeah, what a punk!). Of course I told her what was happening (even though she hadn't known I was pregnant yet) and that I was nervous but that I wanted to stay and watch the game. We went up in the bleachers and I told Jarron what happened and then told his mom (who didn't know I was pregnant either). We all went for ice cream later and things weren't subsiding (although things weren't bad enough where I wanted to rush home or anything either).

However, I went to bed last night knowing what the outcome would be. Jarron had given me a blessing, but there were no promises in it to give me any hope otherwise. I started cramping early this morning and I miscarried at about 7:30am. I'm not all that emotional; I'm kind of a veteran now I guess! (Two in a row will teach you a thing or two.) All I know is that we are taking a break for a loooonnnggg time.

So cautionary tale: don't jinx yourself by spilling the beans on an untimely day, or by making a morbid connection to restaurants you patron.

(And I do appreciate all the congrats you gave me! It's good to know we have friends :) Also, congratulations to you who are pregnant and doing other great things with your lives! We miss our friends who aren't close by.)